'Maybe Pitbull is just not your bag or you’ve heard that 'Party Rock Anthem' one too many times? Music at a wedding is supposed to uplift, not annoy you or make you sad,' notes Donovan. Also, if there’s a track that’s going to upset someone at your wedding or a record with a lot of profanity, it's probably best to add it to this list, too.

If a song holds a negative memory, you should immediately add it to your do-not-play list.

Your do-not-play list is arguably more important than your must-play list. That way, you'll remember every track you want to share with your band and/or DJ prior to the big day. Any time a song pops into your head, or you hear something on the radio, quickly save it to your phone. There are so many ways to create a memorable must-play list, and once you've tapped into your musical memories, the next step is to write it all down. Follow these steps to ensure your DJ and/or band knows what to play and what to skip once it's time to party. Best of Northern Soul Gloria Jones, Dobie Gray, Jackie Wilson and more. 90s Summer DJ Jazzy Jeff & The Fresh Prince, Dawn Penn, New Radicals and more. Summer Beach Calvin Harris, Dua Lipa, Sigala and more. Summer Pop Party Calvin Harris, Ellie Goulding, Fireboy Dml and more. Though the band or DJ will ultimately rely on their expertise and make adjustments based on how the crowd reacts, these lists ensure you hear the songs you really want and don't hear the ones you can't stand.Īhead Donovan shares everything you need to know when curating a well-rounded reception playlist. All Hits UK Doja Cat, Olivia Rodrigo, Calvin Harris and more. Donovan says, 'When formulating your dream wedding playlist with your DJ, it is important to define the overall vibe you’re trying to bring to your wedding, and the musical journey you’ll be taking your guests on to build up the energy throughout the event.' While your big-day musicians are professionals and adept at reading a room, most bands and DJs will ask the couple to provide a list of songs they love and absolutely hate ahead of the wedding-these are generally referred to as must-play and do-not-play lists. What remains the same, though, is the way that soundtrack is organized and pieced together. Since there are millions of songs out in the world today, every couple’s wedding soundtrack will-and should!-be different. Photo by Olivia Rae James / Design by Tiana Crispino

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